Tuesday, May 17, 2011


I can't bring myself to saying it, I am still in shock as to what I got myself into. It happened rather quick and unexpectedly. Since last Wednesday, I became someones girlfriend.

That's right, I said G-I-R-L-F-R-I-E-N-D. The very word I have to spell out because I am still in shock that I now have that title.

Anyone in my position would feel happy to be in such a great relationship, but for some odd reason, I am having trouble accepting it. Sure, I was hoping for the day we would be "official," but the very word boyfriend sounds weird to me.

Perhaps, it is the fact that I have been single for about a year now or maybe because it feels "too good to be true."

Maybe it's because it is just recent or most likely it could be the fact that I had gotten so used to bashing my ex-boyfriend, crushing on random boobahs, or getting hit on by a creeper. Either way, I still can't bring myself to saying the damned word without stuttering.

Hopefully with time, it will get better.

Hanny the coffee bean


  1. That's so awesome! And I'm sure you'll get used to it in at least a few months.

  2. Very cute post! Believe me, after a few years it won't be such a big deal. And it's not too good to be true, it is true! So get excited about it! Congrats!

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  3. That's actually really cool :) And yeah, you have to get used to being someone's girlfriend instead of just roaming freely. XD

  4. Whoomp there it is! Should be good times. Just a label sweetie. I believe it's the feeling that matters! Have fun =)

  5. Congratulations. I found it weird too... I mean being called someone Boyfriend (now husband), not girlfriend... I've never been to prison *cough*

  6. YAYZ!!! :-D

    After so much heartbreak, you finally got a guy who is worthy of you! I'm so happy, my partner-in-crime!

    So, when are ya updating your FB status, 'cause ya know that it ain't official until it is on FB. (I kid, of course.)


  7. Jay: I hope so! For some reason this relationship feels different than the others (well when it comes to saying boyfriend/girlfriend)

    Melissa: Thank you! love the blog by the way since I'm still in college myself ^_^

    Jodie-Ann: haha I know...it's bad I kept checking out a bunch of guys about to chat one up until I relized I wasn't single anymore XD

    PBB: Yes I know it is just the label, but knowing that it exists is weird enough lol

    Invader Stu: LOL!!! O_o I think I would pee my pants if i were called someones wife...so not ready for that.

    Barb: Yes finally! Ahaha I don't think I'll ever update my FB status, especially since he hasnt mentioned it or anything and I'm not going to make a big deal about that. Though it would be fun what my creeper would say about the changing status.

    -Hanny the coffee bean

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  9. Thank you so much PBB! ^_^

    -Hanny the coffee bean

  10. as a girl who was once convinced my reign of almost three years in the realm of singledom was fated to be permanent....I know what you mean about the d-word feeling a bit ...weird. but you'll get used to it.

    So enjoy it! boyfriends = free backrubs!


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